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11
Oct 2012

Exploring the New Frontier … in Tysons Corner

Tysons' Last ForestSome people have to work on Columbus Day. Some get to stay home, sleep in, go to the movies, go shopping, heck, I don’t know … buy a mattress on sale? Do mattress stores have sales on Columbus Day, as they seem to for all other American holidays?

Anyway. My husband and I decided it should be a day that we’d go explore a new world with the kids. We thought about corn maizes and pumpkin patches, or maybe just a little hike at a nice park near our house.

But then I remembered an article I read the other day in The Washington Post, about a coalition of citizens who were working to help save “Tysons’ Last Forest.” The article said that in looking at ways to alleviate traffic in Tysons, Fairfax County’s comprehensive plan includes an “Option 3”, which basically means running a four-lane connector road for the Dulles Toll Road right through the heart of the forest and stream valley.

Now I have to admit something: I’ve lived in Northern Virginia for a really long time, and I’ve been hearing about this secret little forest in the midst of Tysons Corner for what seems an equally long time. But I’ve never been there, and for reasons I can’t quite put a finger on, I never really pursued trying to find out where it was. I had my own favorite places to hike in the woods, and I guess I just thought of Tysons as the place to sit in traffic while trying to get to The Container Store.

But this article stuck with me, and I suggested to my husband that we go check it out. We weren’t quite sure where exactly to park, but with some explanations from my mom, who has lived here for 40+ years, our GPS and an iPhone with Google Maps still loaded on it, we hopped in the car. A few wrong turns later, the minivan was parked and we were curiously poking through the forest’s edge.

Twenty seconds later, my husband yelled that he found the trail, and off we went, headed west through the woods.

The woods. In Tysons. This was insane. To our right, we could see glimpses of the elevated Metro track, and the backs of some random commercial buildings. To our left, we could see backyard playground equipment from neighboring houses. But as far as the eye could see ahead of us, all we could see was huge, old-growth trees. A gorgeous carpet of ferns along the forest floor. A twisting little stream that the boys couldn’t resist. (It had awesome rocks—perfect for boys to toss into the water with great, satisfying plunks.)

We scrambled over fallen trees, twisted around piles of deadwood from a recent storm, came upon an old paved path and some Parcourse equipment that I imagine some corporation installed years ago for their employees.

I. was. stunned.

Eventually, the boys got tired, and the oldest started asking when we were going to turn back. I begged for just another minute and just then spotted a huge, massive tree. It had to be well over 100 years old, and I had to see it. As I hopped up the bank to see it, I saw something perhaps even more incredible: A huge, old farmhouse, shutters hanging at crazy angles, an old brick outbuilding tucked behind it. “Ash Grove,” a historical marker said, circa 1790. Built by Thomas Fairfax.

Um, wow.

Suddenly, I started picturing a bunch of little Fairfax kids running around the very forests that my boys were now running, and this whole entire day went from being a really exhilarating, exciting experience to a heartbreaking, painful one. Would the powers-that-be really, seriously, destroy all of this—indeed, Tysons’ last remaining forest—for an exit ramp? Could they?

On the way back, we came across an orange marker with a sign stapled to it that read, “See the stakes? Two rows of stakes cross this trail, 140 feet apart. This is roughly the width of proposed exit ramps per “Option 3”. Imagine everything between the stakes destroyed – gone forever. Check out what we are doing and what you could be doing to help prevent that from happening at: www.savetysonslastforest.org.”

“But Mom,” my son said as he looked out at the ferns and the forest and the stream that we had just hiked, “that would mean that all this would be gone.”

(Yes, my sweet baby, that is true. It would all be gone.)

“And look at all those houses over there,” he said, pointing to the backyards we could see through the trees. “I guess the people who made this decision don’t live here, and that’s why they don’t care.”

(I’m afraid you might be right, my sweet, perceptive, seven year old boy. Perhaps that’s true too.)

As we neared the end of our hike, two deer raised their beautiful heads and gave us a quick look before bounding away. My son stared after them, surely the closest he’s ever been to a deer. And I vowed that I would try too, to do what I can to help save this forest. It’s too important to not even try.

(For more information about the issue in general, visit http://www.savetysonslastforest.org/. To sign a petition for its protection, visit http://chn.ge/UmWATq.

Disclaimer: What I am not: I am not a homeowner in the Tysons Corner area, nor am I am a member of the coalition working to preserve it. In fact, I don’t even live in Fairfax County anymore (I live in Falls Church City).

What I am: I am a lifelong resident of Northern Virginia, and I grew up in Fairfax County during a time when cows still lived in McLean (corner of Swinks Mill and Georgetown Pike). I am a girl who once cried as I watched, from the window of my third-grade classroom at Spring Hill Elementary, hundreds of trees being cut down for what would become the Summerwood neighborhood. I am a woman who loves to hike, loves being outdoors, loves wildlife and trees and clouds and water and wind. I am a mom to two boys—a mom who feels like I’ve done my job well if they come home with muddied knees, stones and acorns in their pockets, and the perfect, most excellent stick they’ve ever found clutched in their dirty hands.
 

This article was originally published October 11, 2012 on Patch.com.
 

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27
Jan 2012

Discovering the Magic of Disney through Parenthood

DisneySo I’ve always had fond memories of Disney. My first trip there was in the 1970s with my family, via the Amtrak Auto Train.

When Epcot opened in the early 1980s, my mom and I flew down to stay with my Godmother and see what all the futuristic fuss was about. When I graduated from high school and my four-years-older-than-me brother graduated from college, we took a super fun sister-brother trip there. I checked it out a few more times when I was working at Orlando-based conventions, and all the delegates were out golfing.

The last time I was there, Hurricane Jean forced us to hunker down in a windowless room at a college friend’s house instead of riding Space Mountain, but we still had a blast. And any time I’ve ever been asked what famous person I’d like to meet, I’ve always said Walt Disney, because I figure he must have been a crazily inventive, imaginative, curious, whimsical and optimistic guy, and I like those kind of people.

In spite of all that, I’ve never felt as though I had drunk the Kool-Aid when it came to Disney. Yeah, it was a cool place, but I couldn’t quite understand why young couples chose it as the site for their destination weddings. I thought friends who went there in the midst of a boiling hot Floridian summer with little kids were nuts. I couldn’t understand why anyone would want to honeymoon with nine billion other people in long, hot, sweaty lines.

I would occasionally watch those YouTube videos of kids completely and totally freaking out as they learned that they were going to Disney, and I couldn’t fathom my own children having any such reaction: As boys, the whole princess thing was lost on them; they’re terrified of roller coasters and most other rides; and to them, “Disney” meant movies—not a destination.

But then two critical moons lined up: First, Legoland opened in Orlando in October. Second, our good friends and neighbors asked if we’d like to join them on a trip down there, using their Disney points for our “on-property” (check me out, knowing the Disney lingo!) accommodations.

Kool-Aid or no, our answer was a resounding yes. We made a plan for a five-day trip over the MLK holiday weekend, scored some buy two/get two free tickets to Legoland, bought four-day Park Hopper passes (more expert lingo!), and waited. If anyone asked me about our plans, I would blithely wave my arm in the air and make it clear that we hadn’t drunk the Kool-Aid, and even if we spent a few hours a day in the parks and the rest of the time lounging around our hotel with our friends, we’d be happy. We had no intention, said I, of stressing out over a trip to Disney.

The week prior to our departure, Disney veterans spoke to us earnestly about Fastpasses. A free app that tells you in real time what the wait times are at every ride. A book about how to maximize your Disney experience. Web sites to help you plan your visit. We turned it all down. We’re doing Disney the Oppenheimer way, we said, which means no. stress.

The day before we left, our cat sitter told us the sad tale of a colleague who flew her entire family down to Disney over Christmas, only to be told at the gates that the park was at capacity, and they couldn’t come in.

Gulp.

At the airport, we ran into a teacher from my younger son’s school, who cheerfully told us that she had just checked some Web site that rates the parks’ crowdedness, and that Saturday and Sunday were both forecasted at “9”, with 10 being the most crowded it could be.

Sigh.

Our plane was on time. Our rental car perfect. Check-in easy. The pool water warm. The sunset lovely. The next morning, giraffe and zebras and Ankole cattle wandered around right outside our balcony, munching on grass as we ate our breakfast. It was nature nirvana.

We hit Legoland first, arriving bright and early to a parking lot so empty it reminded us of National Lampoon’s Vacation. But unlike the movie, the park wasn’t closed—we just had it all to ourselves. At the Disney parks, we’d head to the most popular rides first for the oft-mentioned Fastpasses, only to find that there were no lines. We’d wander by a show by happenstance, only to see a sign announcing the next performance was in two or five minutes. Trains arrived the moment we’d step on the platform.

We felt for sure we’d miss the evening fireworks display when our shuttle bus had to take a detour; instead, we arrived at exactly the moment the show began, with a perfect view of the Magic Kingdom’s castle. We signed up for a character breakfast and were one of the first families seated, so we didn’t even have to wait in line for personalized Mickey pancakes. We felt like the golden family, breezing through Disney as if an advance team had cleared the way for us. It was bizarre—too perfect, really—and as every minute passed, I started feeling the Kool-Aid.

The parks were clean. The workers kind and helpful. The whole shenanigan expertly and perfectly planned. Seamless. Enjoyable. Magical.

And I realized that in the midst of all the talk of Fastpasses and apps and manuals and how-to books, the one thing no one had mentioned was the difference—the difference between going to Disney as a kid and going to Disney as a parent. Because the ability to bring a kid to Disney, I’ve decided, is the closest I’ll ever come to feeling like I’m some sort of superpower rock star parent. To watch their mouths open in wonder as fireworks explode over a glowing castle … to hear them laugh a big belly laugh as Winnie the Pooh gives them a big hug … to watch their faces turn from fear to joy as they rode their very first roller coaster?

Yup, I’ll drink to that.

 

This article was originally published January 27, 2012 on Patch.com.
 

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